Wow WF, what a rollercoaster of a weekend. He definitely spooked himself by getting close and has now pulled away to try and counteract his actions. Keep up the DBing as it’s clearly working in many regards. I’m glad you got some action after 3 months (I’m sooo jealous!!), I feel concerned that he is actively pulling away from OW but hasn’t ended it, whilst simultaneously is sniffing around you. Forgive me if I am wrong but he seems to be testing out the solidity off plan B before ditching Plan A. I think you have recognised this anyhow. Be careful and be strong x
I think he might have. I'm not surprised really. He did that last weekend just touching my legs and opening up to me. I got 2 days of silence because of that. But today I've already been messaged. So I don't know how much is really about the girls, how much is about him wanting to talk to OW before he fell asleep, and how much is his own conscious fighting itself should he be in the bed with me another night.
The plan a vs plan b thing I'm sure is part of it, but not all. I really don't think he saw me as an actual option at all until recently. I think the fog/alien what ever was too strong before. The comment I made about the minotaur with boobs was/is a real thing. About 6 or 7 weeks ago now he walked in the bedroom after I had gotten out of the shower. I was in a full on bath sheet. Like one of those giant sized towels. I was covered from cleavage to calf and when he walked in he behaved as if he has walked in on a stark naked stranger in a changing room and was horrified. Not only did that make me feel like absolute garbage, but it was one of the weird moments when I realized how deep into the limerence he was. That right there is the only thing I'm reading into this. Feelings for him are all over the board. I know that we aren't exactly full steam ahead to R because of this. I think were just rounding one more terrifying bend on a windy, long, arduous journey. But something clearly has changed. Because less than 2 months ago the idea of touching me disgusted him.
