But why do you care so much about what she used to think of you, what she currently things of you, or how she will think of you in the future?

You do what you feel is internally the right thing! You make 180’s because YOU feel your past behavior was not acceptable. You make the changes you want based on the man you want to be. Not because you have something to prove to your ex wife. You have a girlfriend you are traveling to Brazil with, but you are still so concerned about proving something to your ex.

Make your choices based on the man you want to be for yourself