Thanks BenB

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Me- yeah that sounds like a solution but I have to think about what works best for me.
W- I don't understand you, now with your new ways.
Me- how do you mean?

Don't even ask IMO.

W- Whatever it is your doing, trying to make a point. Living at home all the time.
Me- I'm trying to find a new life. Just like you are.
W-ok maybe I won't go then.
Me- of course you should go meet your friends.

You are explaining why you are living in your own house, to your wife who is cheating on you. This gets a big hell naw from me.

I might put it like this: "I live here. You want out, I wish you the best". Then walk away and go do something you want to do.

Few minutes later. W Still very agitated.
W- I Don't want to come home the days I'm supposed to be here.
Feels like before, when I wanted to avoid it.

I'm torn between whether you should have validated this or simply rolled your eyes and walked away.