H was here at 10am... he did his laundry and when putting stuff away said he needed to go back to Lowe's . He needed a bulb for the closet. One of the two bulbs has been out for months.. I never said a word. He is fixing all by himsef???

That left me confused... why is he doing this? Well after our talk last night he just wants to help. I'm doing all the dog care and he is trying to find a place for the dog.

He is still saying that he has to get right with himself before he is with anyone else


But the writing is literally on the wall.

He is speaking in absolutes.... I never could get sleep on Wednesdays, you were home and always too much noise.

I have a small parrot that stays in the room outside the bedroom
It made noise and he would get angry... in would get angry when he moved bird. I didnt thin it was any less noisy in the entry way or laundry room.

Too must dust and debris to leave in kids room with carpet. Since this BD... I've been keeping her in a kids bathroom. Super tight fit but doable.

I've had this bird longer than anything, 26yr. At one point H and Injad discussion that I just cant toss out pet I've had forn26yr and she really is at the end of her life expectancy... H said unknown but I thought you could take her to work or something.

I have donen180s... he has picked up on showing him more respect, he has noticed I stopped knitting... these were his own observations .

The online gaming was an escape... when he first got into it again I told him it raised red flags because i kn we ut was an escape in his first M. I wanted him to not do it... at first it wasnt mich but grew over time to where he stayed he just loked his down time and needed to chill... I wanted him to relax he deserved that.

He said he does not consider himself married right now. I am free to date... he just doesnt want to know about it.

He said part of him wants to get this over and done with like ripping off a bandage and the other part of him just doesnt know. When I talk of doing the 1yr S before D... H gets defensive and feels backed into a corner... he feels I will draw this this out longer than it needs to be