This changes nothing for me. I am moving ahead toward mediation and continue to detach and GAL. I posted mainly as a journal entry.
I also think LBS's can get caught up in blaming themselves for their spouse's MLC and the situation they find themselves in. But, as my case shows, this is about the MLCer and I certainly believe there was nothing I could have done to prevent my W from going through her crisis.
D-bing your face off is the best thing you can do, and I intend to keep on keeping on in that regard.
