Just came home, will write and answer more when I find time and space.
W saw me approaching the house and went in to th MBR talking on the phone and I think she was talking to OM..
I think I might have to set some sort of a boundary here. Feels like a slap in the face.

Short update:
She has paid most of the money she owed me back.
I have a realtor coming to look at the house on Tuesday. (havnt told W yet but I will)
Oh, and AS I did validate some (should definitely have been more) but I didn't type out the whole convo.
Will read the validation sheet again now before bed.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021