Be very careful telling anyone though. My W in our sitch said "I have no right to tell you not to tell anyone." I think in a way she wanted me to start telling people. It would have done two things. 1) meant she didn't have to tell or face those people. 2) given her impetus to take the next step. Kind of like "Well, people know now I just have to follow through".
The fewer people that know the more likely he'll never go through with it.
Good advice. My mom and sister know, and i have a couple of good friends who know. I was very careful with who i talked to. They do not gossip and do not pressure me to do one thing or the other. They just support me and let me vent or cry so I don't do it to him. I does not know they know.
the best apology is changed behavior. *************** me: 45 h: 48 m: 23 T: 26 DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019
