I told him he was the best thing g to ever happen to me and he was the hardest working man I know. He just said..
H: Stop. You lost interest in me. Me: I lost the ability to show interest in you. H: YOU lost interest in me...
Hard day--him confirming he's staying with a female friend who wants to be more than friends. I wish more situations were turned around by the LBS bravely putting themselves out there like you did. It's a shame that, by this point, a big chunk of them has already moved on. You did spur him to share his feelings. If he does that again, remember Validation is usually more effective than Disagreement.
H: Stop. You lost interest in me. You: You felt like I wasn't interest in you.
With no minor kids in common, and this being your second rodeo, I wonder if you don't deserve better. No need to decide, of course, because either way Detaching and GAL are the key next DB steps.
