They are cowards. Brave enough to tell you, the LBS, that he wants a D....but not brave enough to tell it to the world (yet). He can tell you all the things that you did wrong, but cannot withstand the rest of the world judging him.
About kids - you are not the bad guy. You are the responsible parent. Someone has to discipline the children. Sometimes I feel that way too, thinking it is so easy for H to buy junk food and candy for our boys and indulge them with TV time/game time when he’s around.....but I’ve let that go. That’s also expectation, expecting your H to be a decent parent. That is tricky when you really need him to be on top of things when you’re absent. Is there any way for you get outside help? Maybe even a paid sitter can do better.
You've kind of nailed why I've lost so much respect for him. Watching him behave like this and handle situations in such a lame way just makes me so disappointed in him.
the best apology is changed behavior. *************** me: 45 h: 48 m: 23 T: 26 DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019