Hi Chum, welcome and sorry you are here. I have to say your sitch is unique related to your infidelity. Did you guys do any IC or MC in the aftermath? Infidelity is very difficult to overcome, my guess is a lot of this is residual from the cheating.
Can you elaborate a little more on how you dealt that that?
Hi Steve, Thanks for your reply.
Yeah I know what I did plays a huge part in my sitch and if it wasn't for that I think we would still be together.
The problem is it was pretty much swept under the rug. No IC or MC. W only took a couple of weeks before telling me she forgives me and trusts it was a one time mistake. We pretty much resumed our 'normal' M but I think bottled up resentment from my wrong doing was the driving force. FIL sadly passed away later that year so it was a really hard time for her.
Not dealing properly s with things like this set you up for a BD later. I was afraid you were going to say it was swept away like it never happened.
The good news is that it changes what you should be doing not one bit. GAL. 180s. And detachment are your best path forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
