Very quick update as he has come to me this morning to see how I am. I said I had found it hard to fall asleep - that things were starting to snowball and it all felt out of control. He agreed that things are moving too fast. He explained that part of the reason he started this process was because he felt like I was pushing him to leave and him staying was hurting me. But being this close to the reality of signing a contract is bringing home what he is losing and the upset it will cause. (as in your sitch May, this has nothing to do with loving me, although he did reference the nice things we could do together in future). So I’m relieved as I don’t believe he is ready to make a decision. However, I am under no illusion that his thoughts could change again by tea time!


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020