Cardinal, I just want you to know I do come in here and check on you often. I just usually keep my mouth shut, because the MLC stuff with waywardness is just so much more messy than my little sitch. On top of that the years you guys have I can't compete with. Compared to most marriages on this entire forum we're barely married. It feels inadequate.
That being said May has reminded me regularly that this isn't a straight path. It's a winding journey. It's ok to feel rocked and like you're slipping. We are all there. And we're all here with you