If your wife were in a coma or had a life threatening illness that had lingered for five months, would you be as quick in wanting to divorce her?
Do you think you can compare this situation to an affair? In this case it is something out of her control, I would never leave her in a situation like this. Maybe you can argue an affair is out of her control because of this whole limerance, it's like a drug thing, but I just can't reconcile that in my head anymore. I just feel like she needed to realize that and make the choice to end it, even if it was hard. At this point it's going to be because it just fizzled out and then she realizes she made a mistake? That just makes me the second choice don't you think?
Originally Posted by job
If she should wake up before the divorce is final, would you consider taking her back?
I do not feel that I would. With that said, there is still that part of my heart that loves her. Would I suddenly let emotions take over and want to her back? I can't confidently say no, but I can tell you I will read back through this thread if that happens to help keep my emotions in check. I do know at this point it will require a lot of convincing on her part.
Originally Posted by job
Continue working on yourself.
Absolutely! Like I said, I know I have my faults as well, and I certainly don't want to repeat this in a future relationship. I am continuing to work on my own issues the best I know how!
