I have been here for a long time. If you keep your posts here focused on your H you will loose any chance of attracting him back.
Change the focus of your posts to you and your changes. Be specific. You can talk about the new ways you are interacting and how his behavior changes, if needed, but it should all be about you and your happiness.
Just think about this : Do you know anything about my X wife? Do I know anything about your man? We want to know more about you and your growth.
