Be wary of cake-eating. Most WASs want their cake and eat it too. My guess is that the well-off cousin invited all of you, and your H doesn't feel comfortable telling your cousin that you guys are separating.
Originally Posted by oceangrl
When I disagree with his plan he is so offended. And he will tell me, "fine, we will just live in a loveless marriage." Since you can't see me I will tell you I am rolling my eyes. Now I feel like saying, "Oh no buddy, that door closed. Now you get to lie in the bed you made."
Got this from my W as well, during our sitch. Whenever I wasn't on board with her plan. "I guess I can just stay miserable." or something similar. This goes along with rewriting history. According to her she hadn't been happy a minute of our 19 year marriage.
As far as life post D, it is rarely as terrible as we make it out to be in our heads. You will be fine.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
