Why have you been pushing her about the paperwork? Do you want a divorce? Do you think this will cause her to come to her senses?
I know a lot of members on this forum have the patience to endure this limbo period for years. I unfortunately do not, I held out for almost 5 months, but I just reached a breaking point. Perhaps if we had been married longer, or had children I would be willing to stick this out longer, but that is not the case. I'm done being married to a woman that has a boyfriend.
So to answer your question, yes at this point I want a divorce, and no I do not expect anything to change with her.
