Separated and facing divorce (Part 3)

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Ginger,

my parents divorced. I blamed my mom for the divorce. My dad was in my ear big time. I didn't see my mom for almost 4 years because of it. I was a dumb kid and I regret it now. Kids and adults have to do things sometimes. When it's family this is especially true. Maybe this is too personal for me.

I do agree with this

I think the reasons why your kids feel this way really need to be explored rather than to say “ because you are a kid” especially at 12 and 15 years old

I just don't understand what is going on in regards to the kids.