I don't know if I should post this--it seems so trivial, in light of everything--but he bought a record player and set it up in his room. Ours hasn't worked for years, so our records have just set there, waiting to be listened to. We talked about getting a new one but never made it a priority. He never seemed that interested. Now he's buying records again. I feel angry, and though I know that will pass pretty quickly, I still feel it. It's like he's reaching back to the time we were in college, but keeping everything contained in his room bubble, separate from me. I guess I should be glad he didn't set it up at his (girl) friend's house or someone else's house, but my immediate reaction is, Why won't he just move out?!