Hi Chum, welcome and sorry you are here. I have to say your sitch is unique related to your infidelity. Did you guys do any IC or MC in the aftermath? Infidelity is very difficult to overcome, my guess is a lot of this is residual from the cheating.
Can you elaborate a little more on how you dealt that that?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018