I feel you. My H does something similar....he comes back to get some clothes, claims he’s showing up to see the kids but barely talks to them, and leaves. I don’t know why he doesn’t just move all his stuff to his new place and save himself the trouble. I also thought about that too...what woman in her right mind would want to be with a man like H now?? Then I think- there are lots of women who are not right in the head.