I knew H wouldn't be home in the morning as typical - he told me so. But, he never came home. It was like Sunday all over again.
So come 6pm I just open a bottle of wine and text/chat with friends after calling my mother.
Then at 7:15pm I hear his truck in the driveway... CRAP! Closing out internet browser... throwing DR into a drawer.. stashing the extra glass of wine... yes I had 2 separate glasses out. Then try to be casual in the sunroom. Only to remember I left my DR homework notes on the table... I gather those but he can see I'm garbing something.
His first words are "so you are drinking wine?" Obviously 1/2 empty bottle on counter.
I'm trying to kind but this is probably so needy that someone should call the police and report me.
Me; Did you get some sleep today H: Yes a couple of hr in the truck... Me: Wow, it was chilly for that H: Yes, but I was sitting in the sun and it got pretty warm.
H: I'm working this weekend. Not sure if 8 or 12hr. Sunday is in the air. Me: ok H: Did you go to the store? Me: Only got milk, did you need anything? H: X, Y, Z
H went to take shower. Once done he got his coffee and stated he was leaving. I said have a nice night from another room..
10min later he is back. Goes to bedroom and I can hear velcro. After 2min he goes through the kitchen without a word. I'm in another room during this whole time. Once he is gone I confirm he has taken his oral appliance so he plans on sleeping somewhere. From what I could see he did not pack a bag.
So he literally drove 2hr to take a shower.
He is complaining about being sleep deprived and this terrible commute... yet he drove 2hr for a shower.
I know he was supposed to be seeing homes today but that doesn't take 14hr. He was also supposed to pick up paperwork from atty??? He mentioned that yet he brought no paperwork in with him... for a man in a hurry to file?? Now I could have misunderstood as he is without much sleep - maybe they are sending it to us??? I'm certain though he was supposed to pick up.
He was wearing crappy work clothes... holey jeans, t-shrit and sweatshirt. They smell like work clothes and the only fragrance I get is from the arm pits - his deodorant. I found a receipt for breakfast for 2. Could have been his dad... its where they like to eat but really who knows.
If he is having A... he isn't dressing very nice AND why not shower there????
