Trying to understand the WAS mind is a fool's game. Most of what he does and says probably doesn't even make sense to him. As I said, right now everything he is saying and doing is for effect, has an agenda behind it, and can't be trusted.
So don't do anything rash based on his crazy. Putting a sign in front of the house in crayon simply because of something he says, even if it is what you want to hear. When he brings up selling the house simply state: "You need to do what you feel you need to do. I'll worry about selling the house and getting something smaller after all of the dust settles." Don't get caught up into his crazy and think everything has to be done now!
You keep mentioning this commute. I have a long commute but I am not a baby about it. How long is it?
1hr 15min each way.
Now my friend drives that and loves it.. it's her down time.
For H it's just additional stress when you worked 12 hr come home for 5 and turn around for 12hr. He has worked 20 day without day off.
He wants his 2hr back. He wants to garden.. he is really into hunting... he deserves his time.
Has your marriage always been one sided?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
