I "Nested" with my ex for awhile. I don't recommend it. Stand on your beliefs. Don't leave while he is there. He can find a new place and get it setup for the kids if he wants this so bad.
W:"I don't want this divorce, but if it is the ONLY way for you to be happy I will not stand in your way. I believe it is best that I stay in this house"
H:"Bla bla bla bla"
W:"I am sorry you feel that way"
I am not a big fan of the I am sorry you feel that way statement, I prefer "I can understand that you feel that way." But then stand your ground "I am not the one that wants to leave, so I should be the one to stay."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018