He keeps talking to me about selling the house... he stated his opinion would be for me to sell and just use the equity to buy a new home.
I'm not saying this doesn't make sense because this will be a big ol house with just me in it.
AND, if walked through that door and said I could move with him to X town I would have a FOR SALE sign written in crayon in the front yard. I have told him I would sell and we could move because the drive is killing him. He said its too little too late and that ship has sailed.
One of the reasons he wants D is he said I can't sell the house under S. S is only for a year. It would take me that long any way. I would get S18 off to college first.
I had planned to book our 10yr anniversary trip with points from our timeshare and use airline miles for first class tickets. I think with all the timeshare talk that popped out of my mouth ---- big no no as soon it flew off my lips. Either he didn't catch it or he was avoiding and we kept up the numbers game. Later in the conversation he said I should use the points to take S18 somewhere.
Is he just testing me to see if I would sell my house and leave this place. Is this some type of test to see if i was going to follow up and move for him when S18 is out of school?
Probably not. I think he just wants to look out for me. I got WAY in over my head with this house just before the housing market bust. The only way I held onto it was my H stepped up after moving in - we were a team then. Not so much now.
