KC, that is what I was trying to get you to see. Actions speak louder than words. "I don't love you." Are just words. Mean spirited, angry words from a place of hurt, but just words. The way he behaved the other night belies that. I've never asked someone I don't love if they are hungry (because I don't care) and then to go get my food for me (because I don't want anything from someone I don't care about).
The best thing you can do is continue to repeat to yourself: "Believe NOTHING he says, and only half of what he does," For instance, when he is buying or renting a place, then you can trust he is serious about leaving. Leaving Homes magazine strategically where you can find it, yeah that is the 50% you can't believe.
But none of changes what you should be doing. DBing your tail off!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018