He has said that his keeping this as a home base even as he moves out stuff as a way to protect his assests given the destruction of items including the MH in his 1st marriage.
But, couldn't I still do that??? Couldn't I get p!ssed one day and take a hammer to his boat??? NOT THAT I EVER WOULD. Isn't still marital property and is he really better protected???
So I thought that maybe that was the excuse he was selling to himself, to me, to others to still have one foot in the door.
But, then it dawned on me last night he was asking how much it had been to store the boat. I couldn't remember exact number and he volunteer that it would be $X to store his motorbike at new location. I just asked wasn't he looking for a house with a garage. He said one did and one had a barn.
^^^^ So his actions are matching his words? He is looking where to store his stuff. I guess if he were worried for damage he would move his valuables ASAP. He has already said he is not going after equity of the home so I would just be trashing my own house.
Wow, now I'm more confused than ever...
All I can say is I have a lot of work to do to prepare for the day he moves out.
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