Except he is full of excuses. "He also discussed that he can't buy a house until paperwork is filed because if he does it becomes another marital asset to be divided." So has he filed? Have you been served with papers? Seems if he was serious about this he'd have done that. But no, instead he leaves Homes magazine laying where you will conveniently see it.
He is smoke and mirrors right now. That is why if you really get good at DBing I think he would back away from all of this. He doesn't want S or D. He wants you to think he does. He wants you to think he wants it quickly. I don't know what his end game is, but I can tell you that if he was a serious WAS......he would have already done the WA part.
Regardless, you need to become a DB pitbull. GAL like crazy. Keep working on your self-improvements (180s), and detach. Keep working on those things. He'll either go through with it, or he won't. But you will be fine because you are doing what you need to do (DBing!).
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
