I think once he talked to atty and the house issue he was frustrated and realizing this is harder than he had in his mind.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Everything I see on my end he is looking to be out the door as soon as whatever papers are filed.
Can you tell me how these two statements are congruent?[/quote]
Just because its harder than he thought doesn't mean he doesn't want to do it. And, he has had a bad experience in his last D without agreement in place. So he has been pushing numbers and tackling the two bigger hurdles. He is waiting for documents to get filed so he has protection of his assets here.
He also discussed that he can't buy a house until paperwork is filed because if he does it becomes another marital asset to be divided.
Outside of small comment that came out of nowhere that he says I've been showing him more respect in the last 2 weeks than I have in a long time there hasn't been much softening.
Especially given shortly after that he stated clearly "I Don't Love You".
He says he just can't be hurt that like again and he will never put himself out there for one more promise because he would never get over it.
I know he doesn't hate me. I've also caught him saying once "I Don't Love You Enough".
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I've seen a lot of these sitches KC. And in the one's where a WAS wanted to be out the door as soon as possible....they were. Actions speak louder than words. The fact that he is still home immediately tells me that he isn't as serious about this as he insists it is. His bark is worse than his bite. There is no reason he couldn't be gone if that was his priority.
Even if every waking moment we have here together is dividng up things... discussing things... calling atty, calling realtor???
I've not seen any sign that his resolve has changed or even wavered.
