Wow. He has got to slow his roll. I'm glad you are dealing with this all so calmly but he is all over the place. It isn't like if he misses out on this apartment he will never again be able to make the decision to leave... but once you tell the kids and move out, you are crossing a certain line that is hard to uncross. But anyway, none of that is about you, I am just feeling kind of like badly and watching a slow-motion car crash with him right now. Honestly, he sounds a lot like my H over the last couple of months.
I think you're doing absolutely the right thing. Stay strong!
He is a mess May, he has talked again this morning, says he really doesn’t know what he is doing or feeling right now. He came up behind me and wrapped his arms round me. He had his wedding ring back on. (He took it off 2 days ago as he noticed I had gone to work without mine, and he said he realised he was kidding himself by wearing it. I was hurt when I noticed but I didn’t get upset )
M:49 H:49 T:20 M:18 D:16 D:14
EA: Feb 2019-May 2020 Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020 H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020 EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020 Recon #2: since Nov 2020
