Everyone was was so right, what they were trying to tell me. And no! Right now, who he is, is not exactly the kind of guy you are looking for! He did a pretty good job of convincing you of that for the first 2 weeks..... but people do over time reveal their true colors. It’s the ideal in our head of what we think they could and we build this fantasy, but it’s not who they are or are in a position to be right now.
I do understand it’s hard. As you can see how I hold on so he’s hoping they are going to be the person I thought they were. But some just carry around too heavy of an emotional bag load that we can’t carry for them,
