I'm glad you're doing well, though still struggling with connection and desire. Expanding on May's suggestions, have you heard of the "Adventure Date Challenge Book"? There are several types out, but essentially, it gives you random and exciting date ideas. The whole premise is to focus on completing the date together and enjoy the ride. Maybe instead of waiting for H to plan something on his own (or God forbid suggesting that he do so), this would take the pressure off and allow for a new experience that you could both share together. Plus, you can set aside a planned evening and dedicate yourselves to the teamwork aspect . I am sure it feels frustrating to not have the desire come as easily as it once did. I know one of my fears is staying and not ever having that complete trust and connection again. Thanks for updating us all and being such a strong, empowering female on the forums.
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. I am sure it feels frustrating to not have the desire come as easily as it once did. I know one of my fears is staying and not ever having that complete trust and connection again. Thanks for updating us all and being such a strong, empowering female on the forums.