Thanks BenB

[Mumin]

Also quit floating her bills. If she can't come up with her part of a bill I wouldn't pay it. You basically financed fake boobs for OM to play with and are taking care of the interest. Hell to the naw.

The fake boobs were "more than she thought they would be"? You should have told her "tough t*tties".

Both correct and funny!
I did basically part-finance them with the monthly payments.
Will tell her I expect her to transfer same date every month from now on.
Also seeing my friend who is a lawyer tomorrow.

To the update:
Last night I was home late after work (her time to have the kids but I am still staying in the house).
I walked around fixing things in the house and mentioned I would be getting up early to go to gym.
I could tell she wanted to talk.

W- Dont you think this feels really weird? Us living together
Me- No, not really.
W- Feels like I'm walking around in your house.
Me- Equally much your house

She said she was going to bed but after some wandering sat down on the floor.
Could tell that she wanted to say something and saw she was sad.
I just stood next to her and looked at her for maybe 5 minutes (no one said a thing).
Eventually I say. I can listen.
W- I dont really have anything to say.
I also sit down on the floor.
5 more minutes pass without a word.

W- Its like I never stop and feel.
Me- No. But you will need to eventually.

W- Everyone thinks I don't care. And maybe that just best.
Me-Then you will be alone
W- Maybe thats the best.
Me- You have to do decide what you want/need. But you don't have to be alone.
W (crying a bit)- I'm going to be alone in some small crappy apartment. I'm stupid.
Me- That's your choice

She cries a bit and what felt like an eternity passed.

W- Do you exercise a lot now?
Me- Havnt done as much as I want but at least 3 times a week.
Me- Do you want to say anything else? Otherwise I will read now.
W-No. Went to toilet.
W came back and looked/starred at me with the "please help me" look, but she didn't say anything.
So after a minute I just said. Good night.
She laughed a bit and said good night and went to bed.

Feels like some progress on my part and maybe on hers too.
She's not at home tonight though (my day with the kids) and I am almost certain she is with OM.