I think I feel better when I limit my time here. I'm going to do my best to back off until I have an actual question or need help handling H should he decide to flip out. For now my L is doing her thing and H isn't bothering me.
There are 2 things that are about to hit though. One I filed for D under grounds of adultery. He will also owe me more money and his control will end.
Two I filed my taxes married filing separate because it is in my best interest to do so. This is going to cost him a lot of money because he has not paid taxes on the dividends (I normally do this for him) and it's a higher tax bracket. Oh and there are those legal bills he isn't prepared for plus CPA fees since I won't be doing his taxes this year.
For now he is going about his life unaware that he is no longer in control of this situation.
