Thank you! I think the weirdness for me is that it is the way it’s supposed to be and I have never had it that way before. It’s just unfamiliar to me, but quite nice. I’m warming up to to it all. And yeah, I do have a tendency to wait for the other shoe to drop or think “this can’t be real, something has to happen”

As for the the guy from October who turned out to the the raging alcoholic..... he’s still here, a mess and CPS was called on him. All he did was brag about what a wonderful father he was. About how he does everything for them and his ex wife is too busy partying. He bragged about how when he brought his youngest son trick or treating, the adults stayed back and drank, but not him!

It was all just a huge bunch of insane lies.

Those poor kids. I feel super bad for them.

The universe took him out of my life for sure and for a reason. And that was the catalyst for my changes. He was the one where I said “good bye”

I hope he cleans himself up at least for the sake of the kids