Meeting with the L today to go over my interrogatory responses.
I ended up re-listening to the audio recording of when I confronted my WAS about the OM about a year ago. The amount of gaslighting in the conversation is just amazing. Went from outright initial denial, to stating the OM was a figment of her imagination used by her to create adult stories while txting an ex boyfriend, to admitting he does exist and that she actually saw the OM's "junk" but nothing happened,to telling me how I should feel and not be upset.
I feel some of the damage that day has returned. I recalled just absolutely not knowing which way was up whenever I spoke to my WAS in that moment. I feel agry all over again, like I want to meet this POS OM that was OK with tangling with a married woman of 16 years with 2 kids.
I like the idea of making my house kid-friend-friendly! I am looking on Craigslist for some comfy second hand furniture to replace the stuff my WAS is taking when she leaves the neighborhood. I am really excited to see my kids this weekend.
