What is with these WS's complaining about not feeling close but then doing whatever they can to prevent that from happening? Ugh, same sitch. And it can be crazy-making when you really get along fine but they are planning on D. And I'm not sure how the baby is you calling the shots. Fertility treatments take two willing people.

It sounds like you are doing a good job. I am not sure if it's so bad to ask, "when are you moving out?" as long as you aren't going in for the attack, but in a detached way. I mean, it's rough when they have to best of both worlds, the benefits of living with you with none of the commitment. I am curious what the veterans think. My H is doing the same. He can't afford dual living situations. So it's so hard.

Do you think there is an OW? So much of this seems like it could fit. But I don't know based on your info.


the best apology is changed behavior.
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me: 45 h: 48
m: 23 T: 26
DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019