I work full time, take my kids to school every morning and pick them up every night after school. I wake up every morning, feed them breakfast, get them dressed and out the door we go. I pay for them to go to after school care at their school and they are their until I get off of work and can pick them up. I take them to all of their basketball and soccer practices when it is my week as well. At night I make dinner, give them showers, do homework and put them to bed.
You can make it happen if you want to!
I left work yesterday at 4:25 so I could get my youngest to soccer practice at 5 and my oldest to her practice at 5:30. We didn't get home until 7:15 but after showers and Chicka Filet they were in bed at 8:30
The less she works and the more custody she has the more you are going to pay! You have more control over your money when you have 50/50.
I have a buddy that pays his XW 2300 per month and she barely works, kept the family home and drives around in a brand new Benzo.