I'm hit or miss posting because work is killing me. I feel comforted knowing I'm not alone.

I look back and think I wish I had filed when he said he was done just to save my dignity. In hindsight though had I filed his attorney would have told him to just say "no" since I live in a fault state. Until I found out about the OW I had no grounds and he didn't have to give me a D until he was ready to do so. Had a shot at temporary support but I blew it.

I'm in a kinda of IC/support group combo. Everyone says I'm doing well that my latest crazy has to do with court and worrying over how he will respond.