I agree with your sister and Yail…...in the immortal words of Anna and Elsa, "let it goooooooooooooooooooooo". You say you are letting it go and that is good, but you have to convince yourself. He is a friend, nothing more, despite some of his insinuations that it could be more, but at the end of the day, you never really got the chance to see if it could get off the ground romantically. He may circle back around and some point and if you are available and willing then, by all means, go for it. Right now, he is clearly not ready and you are being somewhat unfair to yourself to keep trying to get his attention. You deserve more. Like many of us told G, you deserve a man who is ready to meet you where you are and not one who is still broken and reeling from his own past hurt. You don't want to have to help him heal, you want a man to come to you who is already healed. You are worth it!
Now go knock 'em dead at that interview!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
