I wish I would have had the strength at the time to file right after my XW told me she wanted a D and moved out. Instead I gave her 8 months to get comfortable and situated with her life then she told me she was ready to proceed.

I know it's not what you want but be very proud of yourself.

Not filing was my only regret.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018