Does detaching mean being comfortable around H because you don't care one way or another? I try to avoid being in the same room with H because he irks me (this is how he acted toward me after the 1st DB last year. I kept wondering why he was working so hard to avoid me.). Guess I'd better keep working on my detachment skills.

Last edited by HesAble; 02/19/20 01:01 PM.

H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years