My one regret through my D process is that I did not immediately D my xw and get her out of the house with 3 weeks of her wanting out. It would not have changed things but it sure would have made her a lot more uncomfortable
You are going to get D'd. Your wife is not waking up any time soon.
This board is more of a support system through the process. 99% of the women dont just wake up and even the men on this board that are still together with their wives walk around on egg shells, wondering if it's going to happen again.
Who gives a fuch what your wife wants. What do you want? If you want your kids half the time then dont settle for anything less.
