You can do this Kas!! Don’t be scared. You are doing what you need to do for you and your children. You didn’t ask for this... he did. Stand tall and whatever you do, don’t let him goad you into a conflict. Try to see it as business. I know that it is more than that but for this purpose, getting your share of the assets and being able to look after your kids, business it is. (((HUGS)))