Oh hunny. Here’s the deal. It’s a marathon not a sprint. They say that it isn’t over until it’s over for a reason. Separation doesn’t mean it’s over. For some people divorce doesn’t even mean it’s over. Some crazy people divorce more than once and remarry. This isn’t over until you’ve both moved on. This separation could be the absolute best thing for both of you. Maybe it’s what gets this back now track. Maybe it’s what gets you over him and all your hopes for a future with him. Your marriage died a year ago. This is just one step in the process of M2.0 or one step in you waking away a whole, healthy, happy Pommy.
Pommy you cry all you want. Scream. Yell. This is h3ll. And I’m so sorry none of us can hug you for real. But you keep your cool around him like you have been. You were so so strong today. You will be strong tomorrow when you need to be. And the next day. I wish you weren’t hurting like this but you have to know you’re going to be ok. There are no promises that your H will be though. Sending you all my love.
