Why is it that even for people who genuinely LIKE nuts and caramel, they still are always left to last in the box?
Originally Posted by FlySolo
I have felt really strange all week. A bit like the weight has lifted. I think that it is because for so long it felt like I was treading water and now it feels like I am swimming towards something. Yes, it might not be the resolution I hoped for. I may never get the closure I deserve, but at least I can start looking forward again.
This is the perfect description of how I felt. I just needed to feel like I was making decisions for me, not being lead somewhere blind. Then it would go away again, and then when another step was taken (ie one more tiny thing resolved) I would feel lighter again.
It is interesting how H did not state clearly that you are headed towards D. He really has his head in the sand while standing right in front of you, doesn't he?
I like your factual updates to him. No presumption to what he is thinking, just commenting what has taken place. This will help get you through. Sometimes for me those tiny communications of facts made me more confident that I was taking the right steps. Hearing what I did (reiterating my steps out "loud" in email) made me see how common-sense and realistic I was being. It helps to counter the swirling in your head.
May and FS: Have you watched Workin' Moms? It's hysterical. I love it, and have watched the first 3 seasons twice now. Highly recommend. The first 30 seconds of the first episode really set the tone for the show, so you'll know right away if it's your style.
