Doing my thing and hope for the best

[may22]

Yeah, I don't know that I'd reach out to the MIL right now. Better to do it in a neutral position when they aren't in a big tiff. You probably aren't the right person to support her right now and I can't see that it would be helpful for either your R with her in the long term or your R with him.

Also, you are not crazy. (They sound a little dysfunctional though.)