You need to GAL but that doesn't mean shirking your parental responsibilities... double down on being the best parent possible. THEN DO IT. My XW and I had 50-50 custody. On the weeks I had the kids I was Superdad. On the weeks I didn't then I GAL'd like a madman. Split custody bites, there's no two ways about it. But you can make the best of it by focusing like a laser beam on being Parent of the Century on the weeks you have the kids.
[quote=AnotherStander]She fired you as husband, friend, mate and financial adviser. Her financial issues are not your problem anymore except as mandated by the court. Unless it endangers the kids. And if it does, then go back and get full custody. Focus on you and the kids, leave your W to the mess she's making.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
