After dinner that she, at times, didn't feel comfortable staying overnight at my house because she wasn't certain where i was. I told her I could certainly understand not knowing where I am would make her uneasy. I asked her if I could please have another chance to prove myself to her. She said she's considering it. I thanked her for talking to me and opening up about her feelings.
This is D saying this? I agree with Don, this is setting off some klaxons in my head. You need to GAL but that doesn't mean shirking your parental responsibilities, which is sounds like you may be doing. I would suggest that you talk to her, tell her you gave a lot of thought to what she said and that you are going to double down on being the best parent possible. THEN DO IT. My XW and I had 50-50 custody. On the weeks I had the kids I was Superdad. On the weeks I didn't then I GAL'd like a madman. Split custody bites, there's no two ways about it. But you can make the best of it by focusing like a laser beam on being Parent of the Century on the weeks you have the kids.
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W will move out on 3/1 still. I seriously don't see how she's going ot financially make this happen. Part of me inside is realy worried about her.
She fired you as husband, friend, mate and financial advisor. Her financial issues are not your problem anymore except as mandated by the court. Unless it endangers the kids. And if it does, then go back and get full custody. Focus on you and the kids, leave your W to the mess she's making.
