Especially when WS says or does something that could be viewed as commitment
Can be viewed as commitment means wishy washy to me. If they want you, you'll know it. If they don't want you, you'll be confused. Good job avoiding the touch. Realize that it is our minds fooling us into wanting the touch, wanting the emotional connection so intensely once we realize we can't have it. Then once we get it again, it's not so special. Just like sex in the beginning of a R vs sex 5 years in. It's different because we think about it differently. It's an unconscious drift. Consciousness changes it all around.
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Someone else might be on the other end of that spectrum in which they live their life with as little worry or conviction as possible, making sure that they are protecting the self first and foremost. Both people on the spectrum are too far to the extreme.
This is assuming the spectrum only moves in 2 dimensions. Now we are getting philosophical.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
