M, there was a lot of blaming in your convo with her. See below strikes. Obviously you can't change the previous convo but maybe this will help you see how you should talk to her in the future. Be brief and to the point. No blaming, no emotions. Handle it like a business discussion.
Originally Posted by Mumin
W - Last time you said your going to live in the house. Me - Yes thats what I have decided is best for me. It is my home. Cant live with brother. It is what I need right now. This is my home. W - Yes I know it is your home! This changes things so much... W - It is not common in a separation to live together. Me - I don't know. There is such a thing as "in house separation" W- Maybe I will want to get my own place while you live in the house then.
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Me - You seem to have moved on. You don't always live with your sister. You havn't met me at all in this. Mentioned she has been emotionally and probably physically unfaithful.You have to do what you feel is right for you.
Started talking about future and she said you have to buy my share. I said I dont know if I can afford it. Either I buy your share or we sell and each get a new place.
Me -This is your decision and the way you have acted I can't see how we would share a second apartment and handle this all together. So the way I see it, now you are responsible for yours and I am responsible for mine. W - Well ok then. (And she walked off with heavy steps)
Originally Posted by Mumin
Will I be paying for them? Oh H3LL NO!!! like you said I will be adding this to the list of what she owes me.
So you did pay for them. Otherwise she wouldn't "owe" you would she. Have you consulted with a lawyer? If not then do so ASAP. You've got to start protecting yourself from her wild spending. It could get much worse. For her to get a boob job at a time like this is a crystal clear indication that she does not have sound judgment right now.
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